One of the best things we do as human beings is to focus on the negative side of life: We hate our jobs, we don’t have enough money, our relationships are just not that good, we’re bored, we are not satisfied with life. Don’t get me wrong, it’s okay to feel like this, we have all felt it.
When we focus on the negative side of our lives all the time, guess what! We are going to get more of the same.
Why being negative drains you like a cheap battery.
We all like to have a moan about what’s not going right in our lives, however think about someone you know who complains ALL the time. What happens when you think about that person; your energy begins to drain, you feel a cloud of doom and gloom around them, you might say to yourself ‘I can’t be bothered with this person’.
These types of people are energy killers and drain you like a cheap battery. Learn how to flip this negative charge into a positive charge and be like a Duracell bunny – you just keep going, and going, and going….
Why being positive gives you hope.
Positive people have a completely different attitude to life, they see their negative experiences as lessons to be learned from, and dismiss them as footnotes in their lives, whilst still focusing on the positive.
When you have a positive outlook on life, your energy and your ‘vibes’ attract other like minded people toward you, therefore giving you more opportunities to get what you desire in life.
Can you imagine Richard Branson, at the start of his career, saying ‘We’ll never get this record shop started, I don’t know why I bother, it’s all going to go horribly wrong.’ Of course not. He was focussed, he stayed positive, and whilst there were things that went wrong, he didn’t focus on them, he focussed on what he wanted to achieve and attracted the people into his life that made his vision become a reality. His vibrational energy was strong, most of the time.
You might have read a lot about vibrational energy, but may not have quite understood it. Let me give you a quick example
Have you ever come home from work in a really good mood, you feel full of energy and full of fun.
You get home and tease the kids in a jovial way, they notice you’re in a really good mood and join in with your sense of fun. Your partner comes home and you kiss them passionately, and smile.
They remark about your good mood and feel better too. Pretty soon the whole family is in a great mood and having a great time together. That’s all down to your vibrational energy, it’s infectious.
This vibrational energy is how positive people attract other people into their life who can help them achieve their desires.
You can have this type of vibrational energy too by flipping your negative thinking into positive thinking.
How to become more positive.
It’s all a matter of perspective. If you keep telling yourself you hate your job and list the reasons why you hate it, flip it and tell yourself, and others, why you love your job:
“I love my job because the money I get paid allows me to have my own home, to pay my bills, to feed my kids. I love it because I get to meet interesting people. I love it because………………..’ – and that is also how you attract your dream job!
We have SO much to be grateful for in life and we can learn to focus on everything we are grateful for.
This can be hard at first, but once you get into it you’ll see a huge difference in your life and your outlook, your reality begins to shift from one of doom and gloom, to a brighter more focussed outlook, anything becomes possible.
It’s an easy shift to make, and you may think it’s a little too easy to make a difference, but believe me I am here today because I flipped from being negative to a positive person.
What are you grateful for?
Start by telling me everything you are grateful for today, just leave a comment below and let me know every single thing you are grateful for today…….